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Traditional
Dining Etiquette
By staff
reporter HUO JIANYING
 
A waitress depicted in an ancient mural. |
WITHIN traditional Chinese thought, eating has far more
functions than just filling the stomach or bringing gastronomic pleasure.
On Confucianist terms, eating is invested with many social functions.
To ancient Chinese literati, the foremost function of
eating was physical and mental cultivation. They categorized diners into
three groups: Greedy eaters taking in as much food as possible without
discrimination; gourmets meticulous about taste, preparation, cooking
and ingredients; and those eating for reasons of health who emphasized
purity, freshness and balance in everyday meals rather than exotic. The
latter was the accepted approach to dining.
The second perceived function was strengthening kinship
and friendship. The ancient agricultural society of China advocated big
families in which several generations lived under one roof. At meal times,
family members sat in an order distinguished by status and seniority.
As now, friends also sat together around a dinner table as eating together
enhanced communication, understanding and friendship as a whole.
In the feudal society with its strict hierarchy, eating
also functioned as a way of "reporting back to the superior and pepping
up the subordinates." An invitation to an imperial banquet or bestowal
of food by the emperor was a great honor for officials.
Banquet Behavior
Attending an imperial banquet was, however, an exercise
in protocol rather than pleasure. Diners had to be very careful not to
breach the contemporary hierarchal etiquette. In 1005, the second year
of the Jingde Reign of the Song Dynasty (960-1279), Emperor Zhenzong issued
a decree formalizing imperial banquet etiquette: Diners had to be well
dressed and properly behaved; they were seated in order of prominence
and could neither walk around nor speak in an arbitrary fashion. Etiquette
inspectors stood in banquet halls. Though strict, the real difficulty
of these rules was remembering and following correctly the detailed eating
formalities. As The Art of War by Sun Zi numbers some 5,000 characters,
while eating etiquette as recorded in ancient books could more than 10,000
characters long.

The picture illustrates an imperialQing Dynasty
banquet. |
As early as 2,000 years ago, Confucianism advocated
that etiquette and law should be employed to rule the country and educate
its people. Xun Zi (313-238 B.C.) said: "A man without etiquette
cannot survive; a business without etiquette cannot succeed; and a country
without etiquette can have no peace." Eating etiquette was derived
from ancient worship rituals, and came into practice earlier than any
other etiquette system in imperial China.
According to ancient formalities, the host of a banquet
issued invitations to his guests well in advance. On the banquet day the
host or person in charge of protocol would greet the guests, who were
then ushered into the sitting room for tea. When the banquet was about
to begin, the guests would be led to their seats in the banquet hall.
In the traditional seating arrangement, the left or
eastward side is considered most honorable, the seat facing the door most
venerable of all. The second most prestigious seat is opposite the first,
the third is adjacent to the first seat. And the fourth seat is next to
the second.
When all were seated, the host would make a toast and
invite guests to help themselves to the dishes, and the guests would express
their thanks. After the banquet, the guests were again ushered into the
sitting room to have tea until it was time to leave.
Serving and Eating Etiquette
During a banquet, there were serving and eating etiquettes.
Serving etiquette was mainly about where and how to place a dish. Rice
and other staple foods were placed on the left hand side of a guest, soup
to the right, meat farther away, and drinks, sauce and dressing within
easy reach.
Also, clearly stipulated were matters things such as
the direction in which a dish pointed, how a steward should hold a dish
and where a main course was placed. When serving, the steward balanced
a dish on his left palm with the right hand assisting. When answering
a question, he would turn his face sideway to avoid speaking into the
dish. The direction of a dish was considered particularly important when
serving a whole fish. Usually the tail was placed toward the most honored
guest because of its being easier to pick meat off the bone from the lower
part. In winter, however, the fish fresh at the stomach is tender and
rich, so this side was placed toward the honored guest. In summer the
best part was its back.
A major aspect of eating etiquette was respect for seniority
and superiority -- children for their parents, subordinates for their
superiors, younger for older, and host for guest. It was reflected not
only in order of seating, but also in eating. The basic principle was
to start eating after the elders or superiors and stop when they did.
There were also many detailed norms of conduct to observe
during a banquet or big family meal. For example, the youngers or subordinates
would sit farther away from the table than their elders and superiors
to show respect before eating started and move closer to the table only
when starting to eat. When honored guests arrived, other guests would
stand up to show their respect. When the host invited a guest to help
himself to a particular dish, the guest would always gratefully take some,
and never dream of declining. There were also many prescribed eating taboos
regarding gulping, pouring, slurping, and picking teeth during a meal.
Chopstick Taboos
Eating food with the wooden sticks known as kuaizi in
Chinese, has been the Chinese practice for 4,000 years. Over the millennia,
rules and taboos regarding their use have been formed and incorporated
into ancient behavioral etiquette.
In ancient China, chopsticks signified fear more than
tools that take food to the mouth; they also signified status and rules,
"can" and "can't." During the Northern Song Dynasty
(960-1127) an official named Tang Su once had dinner with the emperor.
He was not well informed in noble table etiquette and so laid down his
chopsticks horizontally on the table before the emperor did. As a result,
he was expatriated to a frontier area for penal servitude. Chopsticks
placed in different ways had different meanings. Laying them horizontally
mean that the diner had finished eating, but a subject could not declare
himself full before his lord. The official's action was, therefore considered
an encroachment upon imperial supremacy.
In ancient eating etiquette, there were over a dozen
taboos concerning chopsticks. For example, they could not be used upside
down, nor placed vertically into a dish, as this was the way of making
sacrifices to the dead. Diners could not tap or push a dish with chopsticks,
nor use a chopstick as a fork by poking it into a piece of food. When
taking food, they could not go from one dish to another or let their chopsticks
cross over those of others. When diners wanted to put down their chopsticks
during a meal, they would place them lengthways on a chopstick holder,
or on the plate, or spoon on their right hand side.
Many of these chopstick taboos are valid to this day
and accepted as a norm in today's table etiquette.
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