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March 2002
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SPECIAL REPORT

Women and Marriage in China

 

Characteristics of Marriage in China

Forms of Marriage in the Transitional Period

A Survey on the Quality of Marriage in China
Young Urban Women: Joys and Worries
The Middle-Aged: Divorcing a Husband
Sex: Reason for a Lawsuit
Marriages of Elderly Women: Turbulence Amid Stability
Rural Women: Content with Their Lot

Rural Women: Content with Their Lot

I participated in events organized by the UN Fund for Population Activities (UNFPA) initiated in the aims of reproductive health, with the main emphasis on poverty-stricken townships. I therefore had the chance to chat with rural women and hear about their happiness, anger, grief and joys. At the forums held in Heilongjiang, Sichuan, Gansu and Shaanxi, the impression I gained from rural women was that they are hardworking, unafraid of hardship, and content with their lot. They hope for an income and material life whose levels are not polarized; they are content with their reality, and are willing to share weal and woe with a husband. They do their best to provide for the education of their children, helping them towards prospects of success in life. TV sets in the countryside now being as commonplace as in urban areas. They have a relatively rich cultural life, and are also making ideological progress.


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Tian Yaqun lives in Xicun Village, Xicun Township, Yijun County, Shaanxi Province, and is a native of Baoji. She met her husband in Beijing when they were working as laborers there. She is 36 years old, and has a son and a daughter. Talking about rural life, she said, "My family has an apple orchard that produces 5,000 kilos of apples a year, and added to incomes from growing grain and raising pigs and chickens, we can earn 7,000 yuan. My husband drives a motor-powered tricycle to transport goods, and all in all we have an income of 10,000 yuan a year.

"My family lives in four cave dwellings, totaling 100 square meters, which are warm in winter and cool in summer -- very comfortable. My husband and mother-in-law treat me well, and I am content. As farmers, our labor is not too tiring, since all farm work, including planting and harvesting, has been mechanized. Our main manual work is to put apples under cover and pick them in the autumn.

"I think another advantage we have is not needing to worry about being laid off. Our job is permanent, and in one year there are six months of slack season. We are free to go to work at any time, and have no fear of the repercussions of being late. Even though our incomes are less than urbanites, I do not envy them, and am content with our rural life. I am the leading actress in our amateur theatrical troupe. In winter, when work is not busy, we rehearse and perform. Our days pass happily."

After telling us this, she sang us an aria from a Shaanxi opera.

Her case is representative, and many other women agree with her point of view.

Realistically speaking, there are many difficulties in rural life, such as the low prices of grain, high fees for children's education, hardship when forced to do odd jobs in the city, risks of "unemployment," and the increasingly high cost of medical care, but their positive attitude is admirable.

The quality of marriage for women in China is changing, along with social progress, encompassing both joys at improvements, and suffering that some changes bring. My belief is that it will continue to improve.

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