Author:
Liu Yong
Price: 13.5 yuan
Pages: 219
Publisher: Relay Publishing House
Discovering
the Truth of Life
By
XING YUHAO
IN
1973, when Liu Yong made his debut as host of the Taipei TV
quiz program "Contesting Every Moment," he had no
idea what the future held. In contrast to accepted practices,
this young compere always started the program with a short prologue
about the experience and impressions he had gained in life.
After its first broadcast, the program immediately scored high
ratings, and his book "By the Light of Fireflies,"
a collection of Liu's program prologues, became a bestseller.
Liu Yong subsequently became a household name, and his life
took a new direction. Now, 30 years later, Liu Yong is no longer
a TV program host, but a popular writer whose influence radiates
across the Taiwan Straits. According to a survey conducted in
2000, of the 100 most popular books in China's mainland, 19
are Liu's.
Over the past 30 years Liu Yong has generally
kept to the style of his first book. As the majority of his
readers today are, however, young students, the content of his
writing no longer consists of pure musings on life, but has
a more specific focus: advice on how to conduct oneself in society.
There are those that believe Liu's line is
painting, and although his painting exhibitions and reviews
have never brought him the acclaim he enjoys as a writer, art
nonetheless refines his temperament and sharpens his perceptions
of the world. The minutia of life is glamorized by Liu's artistic
depictions that mesmerize the youth that see the world through
a mental mist of dreams and aspirations.
Creating dreams is a means to approaching
dreamers. Liu's intention is to draw the youth out of their
chrysalis of illusion, and warn them that dealing with interpersonal
relationships in today's intricate society is not so easy as
they might imagine. Liu's comments strike home, and help to
enlighten those with scanty life experience. This explains why
so many callow youths gear their behavior according to Liu's
words. Liu Yong may not be the most influential writer in China,
but he has without doubt a keen instinct for what his readers
crave.
In some sense Liu Yong's popularity reveals
the shortcomings in Chinese contemporary education.
As the old saying goes, "A grasp of mundane
affairs is genuine knowledge, but an understanding of worldly
wisdom is true learning." In Chinese contemporary education,
mundane affairs and worldly wisdom are synonymous with craftiness
and guile, and gaining a grasp of them is therefore shunned.
In China, the correct manner in which to conduct oneself is
taught almost as soon as children start school, and cultivation
of the moral character is, within Chinese culture, deemed the
precondition for running a family and ruling the state. While
stressing the virtues of goodness, honesty and diligence, Chinese
education ignores the need to teach young people how to deal
with everyday reality.
Chinese youth lack confidence when it comes
to integrating themselves into society. In traditional Chinese
culture, the family is supreme, and filial love is one of the
most important elements in life. According to tradition, children
cannot become independent until the age of 30, and until then
they live under the wing of their parents. All their social
dealings are therefore with family members, teachers and schoolmates.
Since the size of Chinese families has shrunk so markedly, Chinese
youngsters now have even fewer social connections.
These young people, who have seen little of
the world and received no warning about how stark reality can
be, are totally vulnerable once they are exposed to society.
They are perplexed, depressed and frustrated on discovering
that the virtues so firmly instilled in them carry such little
weight in real life.
Liu Yong's books complement, rather than confront,
traditional education.
"Parents will give to their children
the last coin in their pocket, even if the children themselves
have a 100-yuan note." Liu Yong regards his young readers
as his own children, and shares with them his life experience.
This is why his writing is imbued with concern and affection.
His series of books, "Surpassing Yourself, Creating Yourself
and Trusting Yourself," written in the form of letters
to his son, gives to young readers a sense of intimacy.
Liu Yong sees his works as medicine for young
people blinded by dreams, but believes that a cure does not
necessarily result in a thick skin and a calculating mind. The
purpose of seeing all aspects of the world is in order to become
more vigorous and enterprising in life. "If the person
ahead of you loosens his grip on a door and it smashes into
your nose, you should hold on tight to the door to stop it hitting
the person behind you." Such esoteric but educative writing
resonates strongly among young readers.
Chinese parents impose on their sons expectations
different from those they have of their daughters. Liu's three
books to "his son" present a father's hope that the
boy might conquer his weaknesses, create his own style, and
affirm his feeling of self-value. His latest work "Growing
Is a Beautiful Pain," is a book to "his daughter",
and contains more gentle instructions on how a girl might discover
and cherish the good in life, as well as exhortations on independence
and self-reliance.
Exploration of the truth of life is not necessarily
limited to instructing the youth. Not everyone would agree with
Liu Yong's views, but one could come to one's own conclusions
through reading his works.